All she has to do is go to work at a job she likes, come home, let me message her and kiss her and hear she is pretty, then orgasm before bed. He said we could maybe try dating as living together is too painful and I will likely to hurt him again. Some are not interested in having sex with other people, but still have a libido, feel sexual arousal and still masturbate. God is saying, yes, it may be a duty, but a great one. Reply I am reading this crying…I am a man, and my wife has been extremely frugal with our sex life for 11 years. Should we have gotten married NO but we did.
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When he is on I never say no, and when I am the one who initiates he says no. The next time we had a special night at a motel room, about 3 weeks later, she specifically asked me that then laughed at my reaction. She is as beautiful today as she was when we married 23 years ago. I have tried everything — counselors etc. Her surgery will be soon, and I hope to God when she's recovered I'm able to kindle some of the fire she had for me when we got together Reply Thank You for your comments.
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How am I supposed to feel towards her after almost 18 years of this. It used to be fun when I practically had to pin him down, now it's just depressing. I was so frustrated With him. Not talking about what you're experiencing inside creates distance, and superficiality. Sexual interest comes and goes over time. His sin was not taking care of his sister-in-law.
After reading several comments, it is comforting to know I am not the only person going through this situation. Frustration, aggravation, and loneliness all mixed with famous Biblical view of guilt and duty. While it is natural to not want to hurt each other's feelings, it is really only by talking, while treating each other with compassion, that you can together figure out how to cope. I also have stomach and kidney issues. And if I try to make a pass at him I get I am not in the mood or too tired. Counseling some would suggest, or you should work at it harder by trying to romance the other.